Diagnosis + Treatment
The Big Picture
Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde? [ Video ]
Five Dimensions of Human Personality
Think It's BPD but How Can I Know?
DSM Criteria for Personality Disorders
Treatment of BPD [ Video ]
Getting a Loved One Into Therapy
Top 50 Questions Members Ask
Home page
Tips
Romantic relationship in or near breakup
Child (adult or adolescent) with BPD
Sibling or Parent with BPD
Boyfriend/Girlfriend with BPD
Partner or Spouse with BPD
Surviving a Failed Romantic Relationship
Tools
Wisemind
Ending conflict (3 minute lesson)
Listen with Empathy
Don't Be Invalidating
Setting boundaries
On-line CBT
Book reviews
Member workshops
Post Questions
List of discussion groups
Making a first post
Find last post
Discussion group guidelines
About
Mission and Purpose
Website Policies
Membership Eligibility
Please Donate
February 27, 2021, 04:13:08 PM
Welcome,
Guest
. Please
login
or
register
.
1 Hour
5 Hours
1 Day
1 Week
Forever
Login with username, password and session length
Board Admins:
Harri
,
Once Removed
Senior Ambassadors:
Cat Familiar
,
I Am Redeemed
,
Mutt
,
Turkish
Help!
Groups
Please Donate
Login to Post
New?--Click here to register
Books members most read
105
The High
Conflict Couple
Loving Someone with
Borderline Personality Disorder
Loving the
Self-Absorbed
Borderline Personality
Disorder Demystified
BPDFamily.com
>
Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+)
>
Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship
> Topic:
Totally weird dream
Pages: [
1
]
Go Down
« previous
next »
Print
Author
Topic: Totally weird dream (Read 410 times)
ReclaimingMyLife
Offline
Gender:
What is your sexual orientation: Straight
Who in your life has "personality" issues: Ex-romantic partner
Posts: 572
Totally weird dream
«
on:
May 19, 2015, 03:01:23 PM »
I dreamed I was hanging out with my UxBPDbf. We had my dog and were going to leave her with this restaurant owner that my ex knew. While at this location, he and I were on the deck outside and he started kissing me. I felt hesitant but kissed him back. He said something like he needed to always kiss me and tease me as that was the way to keep me nearby.
Next scene: I decided that I should leave the restaurant owner my contact info in case there was a problem with my dog. I was having trouble writing down my numbers but did so rather sloppily. Then I went to write down my ex's contact info and I could NOT REMEMBER HIS NAME! I knew what it started with but could not remember despite saying out loud (in my dream) a few others that started with the same letter. I never did figure it out.
End of dream.
How weird is that? I could NOT remember the name of the person I have thought about practically non-stop since we met.
WEIRDEST PART
:
I sort of half woke up (or maybe less than half) and I still couldn't remember his name. Imagine that, I was partially awake and could not remember his name. It took me a minute of really trying once I wasn't totally asleep before I figured it out.
I am not sure what to make of this but it feels VERY hopeful to me. Like I really will be able to forget about him at some point! I CAN'T WAIT!
I also had wondered on several occasions, in waking life, if he was intentionally using sex with me as a way to get his desired outcome. Seems like my dream confirms that YES, he did so.
I have really informative dreams throughout my NC so am glad to add another one to the list. What do you make of this? What dreams have you had?
Logged
Can You Help Us Stay on the Air in 2021?
Pages: [
1
]
Go Up
Print
BPDFamily.com
>
Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+)
>
Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship
> Topic:
Totally weird dream
« previous
next »
Jump to:
Please select a destination:
-----------------------------
Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+)
-----------------------------
=> Romantic Relationship | Bettering a Relationship or Reversing a Breakup
=> Romantic Relationship | Conflicted About Continuing, Divorcing/Custody, Co-parenting
=> Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship
-----------------------------
Children, Parents, or Relatives with BPD
-----------------------------
=> Son, Daughter or Son/Daughter In-law with BPD
=> Parent, Sibling, or In-law Suffering from BPD
-----------------------------
Community Built Knowledge Base
-----------------------------
=> Library: Psychology questions and answers
=> Library: Tools and skills workshops
=> Library: Book Club, previews and discussions
=> Library: Video, audio, and pdfs
=> Library: Content to critique for possible feature articles
=> Library: BPDFamily research surveys
-----------------------------
Miscellaneous
-----------------------------
=> Help Desk
===> Open board
Our 2020 Financial Sponsors
We are all appreciative of the members who provide the funding to keep BPDFamily on the air.
40days_in_desert
Ahquei3s
alphabeta
Amethyste
Angie59
ArtistGuy70
AskingWhy
assumezero
At Bay
Avanzando
Baglady
Beneck
bigredneck
Bittlecat
Boll Weevil
calmboom
Cat Familiar
Chosen
Dnmtnbkr
drained1996
Eggshellsbroken
FaintTheGoat
FaithHopeLove
FindingMe2011
Forgiveness
freespirit
GaGrl
ggGreg
Gift to Myself
gotbushels
Harri
hopeandchoices
I Am Redeemed
Imatter33
Jazzy48
jdc
jones54
Jonthan
Katrinalove
Kwamina
l8kgrl
LLgreen
Longterm
lorymac
lovenature
loyalwife
lucidone
Manifest32f
MariannaR
Meridius
Methuen
mgirl
Minttea
Mommydoc
Mutt
narcdaughter2
needPeace
NorseWoman
Notgoneyet
oceanheart
oftentimes
Omega1
once removed
Only Human
otherlife
palynne
PeacefulMom
Pedro
pest947
podsnapG
ProudDad12
pursuingJoy
Radcliff
Raul
Recycle
Resiliant
Rev
Rosheger
Sad4Her
SamwizeGamgee
Sandalwood
SBBayArea
SCM
SerendipityChild
SES
Silverhope
Skip
songbirdtwo
StillStuck
Swimmy55
Teno
townhouse
truthbeknown
turtleengine501
Ventak
vinnie77
Violet00
wavewatcher
wendydarling
WhatJustHappened?
Whichwayisup
whirlpoollife
Wicker Man
WindofChange
worn_out
WTL
zachira
zaqsert
Loading...