The reason for the post is to get some feedback from others about their own experiences while confirming what many of us have already know:
---pwBPD are consistently inconsistent
---they seem to reappear just when you're turning the emotional corner
---the subject matter of the contact is as confusing as the disorder itself
---there is no sense in trying to make sense of it all
That pretty much sums it up and has been my experience. Sounds like yours was putting the feelers out.
I received a message 'out of the blue' after four months of nothing. The message was to say that they had a dream about me then asked how I was
It was at a time I was maintaining LC as I needed to, so any interaction I had with them came from me. The BPD had not initiated any contact for four months till that message came through.
I am strictly NC now. Hopefully FOREVER