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JerryRG
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« on: August 02, 2016, 09:25:11 PM »

Hello everyone

Working with my therapist today on CD issues, I only see her about once a month now, I'm doing so well I don't need more time together.

She is happy for me, asking me today if I realized how far I had come in my recovery. I am aware and so grateful for everyone who helped. This site has had a huge influence on my ability to deal with my exgf and the support I've received is invaluable.

Thank you all so very very much.

I had something funny happen today, the nurse who gave me my chemo shot said something and I told him how my sponsor checks my attitude. The nurse asked if I were friends with Bill, I didn't realize what he was talking about then he said Bill W. of AA. Oh? Duh, anyway he was happy I was in recovery for my addiction and cancer.

Heard a lot of good news today, numbers for the cancer are so low they don't really matter to the doc, just have to contend with the side effects of chemo.

Realized how crazy and sick my relationship with my exgf was, therapist was happy I'm better at not reacting to her.

Went to Alanon tonight, great group of friends there too.

I'm a pretty blessed man, I always was, I just didn't have eyes to see just how much.

Have a great night everyone, God bless
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« Reply #1 on: August 02, 2016, 09:34:58 PM »

Really glad to hear that things are going so well with both your mental and physical recovery. Things will only to continue to get better with time.
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« Reply #2 on: August 02, 2016, 09:36:27 PM »

Thank you pjstock42 
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« Reply #3 on: August 02, 2016, 10:14:57 PM »

Almost forgot
Got this email from my son's mother around 1pm.

Her
Do you know if u will be home? I have an emergency and have to speak with Psychiatrist... .
But will pick him up at 1 if u won't be home

Me
I will be home soon

Her
Sorry... .I'm not doing well, u alrwady know that tho. But will msg u later

I did not respond.
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« Reply #4 on: August 03, 2016, 02:55:46 AM »

well done bud

my T said about co dependency

i reduced needing T and moved on to CODA it can run alongside AA the two support each other

CODA supports a person belonging to multiple fellowships

anyway well done bud  Doing the right thing (click to insert in post)
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