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LiveloveLaugh2
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« on: March 19, 2017, 11:29:11 AM »

My husband is a narcissist who is controlling. I constantly walk on eggshells and still get put down and blamed for everything and anything. I try so hard to build him up, encourage him and be positive but it doesn't work. On top of that I have a special needs child so I am afraid to get divorced. I don't know what to do
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« Reply #1 on: March 21, 2017, 10:54:13 AM »

Welcome

I'm sorry for what you are going through, but am glad that you found us. We are here to support one another and you'll find a lot of useful information on this site.

Can you tell us more about what happened recently that brought you here? Why do you say that he's a narcissist?

Based on what you have written, the lesson on Tools: communication validation, and reinforcement of good behavior may prove beneficial to you. There are other basic tools in the sidebar to the right that might help.

Keep writing. Tell us your story - it helps you to get it out and it helps others when they see that they are not the only ones suffering.
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« Reply #2 on: March 22, 2017, 05:20:08 PM »

Hi LiveloveLaugh2,

Welcome

I'd like to join Meili and welcome you to the family. I'm sorry to hear that. I can see how stressful it would be for you if you're not appreciated and your H left. Meili gave you some pretty good resources, I like your username "Live Love Laugh" maybe we can get you to do and feel those things again. Can you tell us what doesn't work?
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