Shredded/I am done

[PlasticOno]

Totally out of the blue ... .my love decided to tell me about the other guy in her life and that I am not needed... .5 years wasted thinking I found the love of my life... .I am shattered... .all the relationships I've had I never worked so hard to better myself with her for her and now  I have nothing... .the last two years have been total hell I had to see a shrink to get myself back to myself... .I am done... .I want to fix me... .she made me a nervous wreck trying to love her... .she destroyed my view of relationships... .I am done ... .she never apologies for all the hurtful things for no reason... .I am done with her selfish crap
Excuse my rant ... .I want to thank you ... .this site tool s help make things a little better ... .but she won't seek help... .I am done

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[butterflylove]

I think you are very brave to leave. "Working hard" for someone you love, is something you should be proud of, and it says lot about who you are. I feel shattered and destroyed and ruined too, and it's devastating. It's a long road ahead, but it's a road you deserve to walk on.
I recently read this quote by Cheryl Strayed:
Accept that their actions hurt you deeply.
Accept that this experience taught you something you didn't want to know.
Accept that sorrow and strife are part of even a joyful life.
Accept that it's going to take a long time for you to get that monster out of your chest.
Accept that someday what pains you now will surely pain you less.

[PlasticOno]

I think you are very brave to leave. "Working hard" for someone you love, is something you should be proud of, and it says lot about who you are. I feel shattered and destroyed and ruined too, and it's devastating. It's a long road ahead, but it's a road you deserve to walk on.
I recently read this quote by Cheryl Strayed:
Accept that their actions hurt you deeply.
Accept that this experience taught you something you didn't want to know.
Accept that sorrow and strife are part of even a joyful life.
Accept that it's going to take a long time for you to get that monster out of your chest.
Accept that someday what pains you now will surely pain you less.

K
Thank you so much .BL... .I am gonna write the quote down... .sad part in a few weeks she will try to reel me back... ,... I can't do it anymore