I started seeing someone new and while he too showed flags ... atleast he didn't get a protective order out in me for texts I sent. He pushed boundaries and I finally cut him off last week... that was easy to do even after a month of seeing him three times a week and having great chemistry .
I don't miss that guy
Let's take a look at the similarities and the differences between the two. They both have red flags but I bet that your BPDex is more polarized and intense than this last guy?
How did both r/s's end? Did this last one end amicably and mutually? Did your r/s with your BPDex end dramatically and traumatically without proper closure?
I had a very weak moment last weekend after the guy I was dating basically used me and I almost texted my x... but caught myself .
As bad as things got in the end, it wasn't always that way, at one time we had our exes complete attention, that felt very validating,
Plus they were someone that we cared a lot about. I think that's normal to want to turn to someone that we were close to, it takes awhile to get over someone.