Hi Anuday, you mentioned that your only consideration was for your two daughters, and implied that another shot with girlfriend would be putting you through hell. Is that accurate?
It's difficult to be a good parent when you are being put through Hell. I know from my own experience.
It sounds as if you have access to your daughters as you want. That's great.
So the question seems to be are you better off together or separated? I know how difficult that question can be because there are so many shades of gray.
It sounds as if your contentment is continuing. Congratulations!
Thank you and yes I would say thats an accurate assessment of the situation.
Im not sure in which situation the kids will be better. Her oversight and parenting is so limited. I dont want the kids getting hurt or injured.
My exuBPDgf is acting like she wants to get back together and that her affair/breakup was no big deal.
She has a nonchalant why cant you just get over it attitude. Its confusing. I guess this goes with pwBPDs refusal to accept responsibility or blame.