The year after the breakup was the worst. I was going through a smear campaign. I didn’t have money to retain a lawyer but I filed in court and started court proceedings for custody. I didn’t care about the divorce her jaw yet wanted to sort that I the divorce but I didn’t that to stall so I started court without a lawyer.
When you’re married and have two incomes you rely on each other’s income, i had everything under my name and my ex refused to take responsibility for debt that we incurred together. I was constantly getting calls from debtors, i recall standing in front of the judge in family court and my cell phone was vibrating from calls from debtors
I also filed for bankruptcy protection.
There was major depression, anxiety / panic attacks, PTSD, emotional distress everything that other members go through and I was going through quotes online looking for inspiration and Winston Churchill caught my eye, that’s my favorite mantra when I’m going through really tough periods. Looking back it’s something else coming out the other end by hanging on to words of wisdom. My advice is have faith.
If you're going through hell, keep going. Winston Churchill
