What will you say when you respond to her? How can you let her know that you understand she needs space but leaving you hanging like that is unfair to you?
I only plan on talking to her face-to-face and I think that will make it easier to see what's truly happening. I think I should be able to tell if it was a question of space or if that was just the discard phase and now she's attempting to come back.
It would be easy if she had rage or showed that she did not care during those 6 weeks but she kept giving signs throughout this time that this is temporary and that she eventually wants to come back. This could have been genuine or just a way to keep me close in case things did not work out with whatever else she had going.
What kept me from completely leaving her is that I only saw kindness from her, both during the idealization and the discard phase so I am willing to give her the benefit of the doubt and have that face-to-face discussion to clear things up.