Welcome, proserpine!
I would like to join
Mutt in welcoming you to the discussion forums. We are so glad you're here, although we're sorry for the circumstance(s) that brought you to our shores. Yes, this is a safe harbor. So, feel free to drop your anchor and be supported. That's what we do here.
Thank you for sharing with us what you have thus far:
Does anyone understand this on here? The world would just ask how anyone with humanity could allow their sister to be homeless.
I hear you, friend. Not only are you dealing with your sister's BPD behavior and all the frustration that it entails, you can't even share your bamboozlement with anyone in your real-life circle (beyond immediate family), because it's just
that CrazyTown. I'm sorry. I know what you mean. That's why I'm here.
I believe you will be greatly comforted by the support here and the fact that we really do understand what you are going through. We've all been there to varying degrees.
Take care of yourself. We will look out for future posts from you.
Keep writing, keep processing, keep learning!
-Speck