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Author Topic: Once a day, post your own positive “I” statement  (Read 8011 times)
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« Reply #90 on: August 24, 2018, 07:37:59 AM »
I love my authentic self!

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I am exactly where I need to be, right now.
« Reply #91 on: August 25, 2018, 02:29:09 AM »
My last session with my wonderful counsellor was a recap and reminder of all we'd covered. When I returned home I took a painting I'd just finished and wrote graffiti on it, with the statements

I can. I am. I have. I will.

It also has the words Strength Resilience Determination and Passion emblazoned across it. Now it hangs in my hallway so I see it when I enter or leave my home.

Love and light x
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« Reply #92 on: August 25, 2018, 06:31:33 AM »
Quote from: Harley Quinn on August 25, 2018, 02:29:09 AM
My last session with my wonderful counsellor was a recap and reminder of all we'd covered. When I returned home I took a painting I'd just finished and wrote graffiti on it, with the statements

I can. I am. I have. I will.

It also has the words Strength Resilience Determination and Passion emblazoned across it. Now it hangs in my hallway so I see it when I enter or leave my home.

HQ, what a priceless piece of art you’ve made for yourself. So smart! I love it.

  L2T
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« Reply #93 on: August 25, 2018, 11:21:24 AM »
Quote from: Panda39 on August 24, 2018, 07:37:59 AM
I love my authentic self!

I love your authentic panda self too!  (this is my positive "I" statement for today!)
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« Reply #94 on: August 26, 2018, 11:06:34 PM »
I love my bpdfamily.

The sweetness of genuine familial love... .wanting the best for each other and cheering one another on. This place is a refuge and refreshment in the dry desert that life sometimes lays out.

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« Reply #95 on: August 28, 2018, 12:29:06 PM »
I am not defined by how others view me.
I have the freedom and responsibility to define myself.
I am a work in progress.

Libra.
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« Reply #96 on: August 28, 2018, 01:28:40 PM »
Hi Libra!   

Yes to all you said and it is beautiful to see. 
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« Reply #97 on: September 03, 2018, 09:29:09 PM »
I am woman hear me roar?

No seriously now... .

I can.
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« Reply #98 on: September 04, 2018, 12:32:18 AM »
Quote from: Harri on September 03, 2018, 09:29:09 PM
I am woman hear me roar?

I hear ya Harri, loud and clear:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kPQFuUt7AuI

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KP4KTrlvAA8
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« Reply #99 on: September 04, 2018, 12:51:32 AM »
I was adorable as a young pup!

(thank you!)   Welcome new member (click to insert in post)
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« Reply #100 on: September 10, 2018, 10:20:07 AM »
Today is a new day to use as I choose.
Today I choose to stand up and use my voice.
Today I will do something nice for myself.
Today I will prepare and share a home cooked meal with my family.
Today I will be honest but kind to myself and others.
Today I will breathe and be ME.
Today is a new day to use as I choose.

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« Reply #101 on: September 10, 2018, 12:20:45 PM »
Quote from: Learning2Thrive on September 10, 2018, 10:20:07 AM
Today is a new day to use as I choose.
Today I choose to stand up and use my voice.
Today I will do something nice for myself.
Today I will prepare and share a home cooked meal with my family.
Today I will be honest but kind to myself and others.
Today I will breathe and be ME.
Today is a new day to use as I choose.

  L2T

I appreciated that you did this and I appreciate you too!

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« Reply #102 on: September 10, 2018, 07:24:01 PM »
I believe all of your testimonies and I believe in all of you.
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« Reply #103 on: September 11, 2018, 09:03:17 AM »
I have power and potential. I will use both of these to do good and be kind to myself and others.

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« Reply #104 on: September 11, 2018, 11:21:05 AM »
Quote from: Learning2Thrive on September 11, 2018, 09:03:17 AM
I have power and potential. I will use both of these to do good and be kind to myself and others.

  L2T



You go Girl! 
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« Reply #105 on: September 11, 2018, 02:28:56 PM »
I will not allow my past to rule me
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« Reply #106 on: September 11, 2018, 07:36:24 PM »
Quote from: Harri on September 11, 2018, 02:28:56 PM
I will not allow my past to rule me

Like it!   

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« Reply #107 on: September 11, 2018, 08:19:35 PM »
Quote from: Harri on September 11, 2018, 02:28:56 PM
I will not allow my past to rule me
This is a great one, Harri! 

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