Husband Verbally abusive

[DeserveBetter]

My husband has all of the characteristics of someone with BPD.  I try to establish boundaries. His anger is so out of control, his rages go on & on.  Last year we tried to get him help but he did not recognize that he has a problem nor does he recognize it now.

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[formflier]

So glad you found us and decided to post!

I'm sorry your relationship with your husband is troubled.  It's good to set up boundaries.  Can you tell me more about 1 or 2 of them?

What did you do to establish them?

How did he respond?

How did you respond to his response?

I'll check back soon for your answers.

Best,

FF

[Rev]

Hi Deserve,

Just wanting to say "welcome" as well. Looking forward to hearing from you when you have a moment.

In the meantime, just know that this is a really safe place - and lot's of really great wisdom here.

Rev