I got the DNA results just like 2 weeks ago. I wasn’t even mad or overly shocked when I saw it. It kind of explained her weird behaviours more than if I was the father. It was a moment of relief and grief knowing that child is not mine, I am mourning the fact I was ready to be a father and love a child that isn’t even mine but also glad the child is not mine because I’d be tethered to someone like her for life.
I understand that, I agree & can see that. I know she is ill and I don’t believe she is a bad person. I don’t hate her, even after what happened.
I have been doing all that, I will try my best to put myself out there and heal, thank you:)
Yes that makes sense, in a weird way it brings comfort you saying she isn’t bad just ill. I take it a little less personally.
I just don’t understand how she can throw away all the effort I put in like that but applying logic to someone who doesn’t think with it makes no sense.
That makes sense, I’m sorry this happened to you as well. Thank you for taking the time to reply and all the best for you also.




