Divorce has been final. This is a custody modification. Coached the kids to make false outcries, once PD CPS and who knows what else got involved it was proven fake. Thankfully I know how to document and I have everything that shows the truth. So we are under temp orders that match our basic original decree. She plays a part, and once she wants to be this moral ethical amazing person that fights for the underdog that is who her part is in public and she gets all these supporters, even though she yells, screams, talks bad about me and all kinds of other terrible parenting. The issue is that she lies, twists, exaggerates the truth to be what she wants, then when confronted with actual evidence showing the truth instead of backing down it turns into well its a conspiracy theory, she said her former attorney, the judge, DA, CPS and everyone else is involved in this giant cover up with me. Then emergency filings saying kids are in danger. Over and over and over again. I'm just trying to figure out how this ends, sanctions? she never paid. Attorneys fees awarded? She never paid. This feels like legalized harassment and there has to be something that can be done to stop this.
Bickering is common in divorce and custody proceedings, but ignoring court orders is not. Why isn't this front and center for the judge to take action on? If she's been caught lying under oath and/or filing false claims, there should be consequences and it sounds like there have been on paper. Why has the court not followed through on any of it?
These are all questions your attorney should have clear answers for.
Getting a psych evaluation is secondary to standing court orders. That's like driving a car with the oil light on, then saying you have to drive across town to check the tire pressure to see if that's the problem. The tires could need air, sure, but that's clearly not the problem we're talking about and it doesn't solve anything.
If your attorney doesn't have a practical answer to make all of this stop, I would be seeking another attorney.



