I cant even read this without grinding my teeth, I couldnt even read through the whole post, !%&$#@&$#&$##, ill try again some other time.
That made me laugh - I literally read this thread before I was going to bed last night and there was so much that resonated that my brain went !&£@/?%#*+$## too!
He told me he had been engaged and caught his fiancée sleeping with his best friend. A guy who he remains in touch with. I now question if that was true. At all.
He was also very clear from the outset that cheating was a no go. He used to love watching Cheaters and passing judgement on people. He was so much better than that.
I caught him cheating online about 3 years into our marriage. That 'didn't count'. (And of course, that went on to be my fault for neglecting him - I 'gave him no choice'.) Like a fool, I took him back.
The last year of our marriage, him picking fights for no reason and staying out all night, storming off after taking off his wedding ring and his screaming he was going to go and cheat on me became a pretty regular occurrence.
Suffice to say, when he left our marital home, it was to my replacement. :'(
I am sure I only know half of what he did.
Suffice to say, I'm 9 months down the line and still unable to even contemplate being with someone else.
I don't know if the cheating is symptomatic of the disorder or not, but the post certainly summed to resonate with a lot of us.