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My beautiful husband committed suicide on Monday. My heart is utterly broken. Please pray for him and that he is finally at peace. I loved him so much.
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« Reply #1 on: January 18, 2013, 12:44:51 PM » |
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Oh hun, I am so sorry. I am not very good with words, but my heart goes out to you. I cant begin to imagine how your feeling right now, its something so horrible to have happened to you and someone that you love. I am sure that he is at peace now. His pain has left him. Please, please please take care of you. If you need anything... . I, and I am positive everyone here on this board are here for you. I am so deeply deeply sorry for your loss.
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« Reply #2 on: January 18, 2013, 12:50:24 PM » |
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Our thoughts and prayers are with you, Chihiro.
Please take good care of yourself, and know that you have a whole community of support right here for you.
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« Reply #3 on: January 18, 2013, 12:52:33 PM » |
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Oh Chihiro
I am so sorry to hear this! Yes, i will pray for him. I will pray also intensivly for you! Do you have support from family members or friends?
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« Reply #4 on: January 18, 2013, 12:53:20 PM » |
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((Chihiro))
I am so, so sorry.
Please do know we are all here for you.
~DreamGirl
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« Reply #5 on: January 18, 2013, 01:04:44 PM » |
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My beautiful husband committed suicide on Monday. My heart is utterly broken. Please pray for him and that he is finally at peace. I loved him so much. Oh, I am SO SO sorry... . There are no words, no way to take away your pain at this time. Its a horrible way to lose someone, let alone someone you love so much. Please remember to take extra care of yourself... with driving, or anything where distraction could be an issue... go slow, so gently. Surround yourself with those that love you. And, like you, I pray he is at peace. BPD is a horrible illness. Steph |
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« Reply #6 on: January 18, 2013, 01:05:01 PM » |
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So sorry :-(
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« Reply #7 on: January 18, 2013, 01:18:09 PM » |
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I'm so sorry for your loss! He, and you, will be in my prayers
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« Reply #8 on: January 18, 2013, 01:22:37 PM » |
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Oh Chihiro. My heart breaks for you. He was so lucky to have met you & been loved by you. No one could have been a better partner to him. You came through for him when almost no one could or would have. Your forgiveness and constancy was an enormous gift.
I hope you are able to accept that no amount of love could have changed what he battled so completely that this would not have happened.
You are such a brave and loving soul. I admire you so much for the principled, true way you found to love this man. I will honor him and you by trying to be more like you.
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« Reply #9 on: January 18, 2013, 01:25:56 PM » |
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OMG Chihiro
sorry, so very sorry... . I can't imagine how devastating.
praying for you, for him, for the families involved.
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« Reply #10 on: January 18, 2013, 01:33:01 PM » |
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I am so very sorry. I will pray for your peace, for your family and friends and for him.
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« Reply #11 on: January 18, 2013, 01:37:12 PM » |
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I am so so sorry to hear such tragic news Chihiro!
Reading your post has brought tears to my eyes. Wherever you are in the world, my thoughts and prayers are with you right now xxxxx
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« Reply #12 on: January 18, 2013, 01:45:11 PM » |
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I'm so very sorry to hear about your loss! I'm sure that he is at peace now. This is tragic, and I know that you will miss him so much. Let it comfort you that you helped make his time here as good as it could possibly be.
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« Reply #13 on: January 18, 2013, 01:59:54 PM » |
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Oh Chihiro, I am so sorry for your loss. Can't think of the words to say to comfort you and help take away your pain, although I wish I knew them... . He is at peace now and I hope you soon find some comfort in that.
We're all right here if and when you need any support at all.
Peace, prayers and blessings,
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« Reply #14 on: January 18, 2013, 02:19:42 PM » |
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Praying for you
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« Reply #15 on: January 18, 2013, 03:18:04 PM » |
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I am so so sorry for your loss! It's tragic. But he is at peace now. I hope and pray that you will find peace also.
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« Reply #16 on: January 18, 2013, 03:54:48 PM » |
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I am so very sorry, how devastating.
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« Reply #17 on: January 18, 2013, 04:33:19 PM » |
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You are in my thoughts and prayers!
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« Reply #18 on: January 18, 2013, 06:34:46 PM » |
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Words cannot express how sorry I am for your loss. I've been thinking of you all day since I read your post. I will keep you, him, and everyone who loved him in my prayers. Big hugs to you.
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« Reply #19 on: January 19, 2013, 05:54:31 AM » |
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I'm so sorry for your loss! Wishing you the light of love in your time of darkness.
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« Reply #20 on: January 19, 2013, 07:14:42 AM » |
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Deepest sympathy and condolences for your loss. You are both in my prayers.
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« Reply #21 on: January 19, 2013, 08:33:41 AM » |
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I am so sorry... . hope and pray you will find the strength to carry on... . much love...
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« Reply #22 on: January 19, 2013, 09:53:33 AM » |
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I am so deeply sorry for your loss. Sending thoughts and prayers to you and your family.
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« Reply #23 on: January 19, 2013, 03:36:15 PM » |
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Bless your sweet heart Chihiro, and those of everyone affected by this tragedy... .
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« Reply #24 on: January 19, 2013, 03:56:46 PM » |
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Chihiro I'm so very sorry to hear this. My thoughts are with you and hope you have support around you during this time.
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« Reply #25 on: January 20, 2013, 05:21:03 AM » |
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Adding my condolences, Chihiro. I'm so sorry that you are going through this. We are all here for you. Courage.
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« Reply #26 on: January 20, 2013, 07:43:42 PM » |
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I am so very sorry for your loss, Chihiro. We are here for you, and I hope you have friends and family who can help you go through this difficult period.
(( hugs ))
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« Reply #27 on: January 21, 2013, 04:03:45 PM » |
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I am very sorry, you have my thoughts and prayers.
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« Reply #28 on: January 21, 2013, 07:23:36 PM » |
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My sympathies. I'm sorry that you have to go through this. Here's to hoping you both find peace after such a tragedy.
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« Reply #29 on: January 22, 2013, 12:44:27 AM » |
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Thank you all so much for your prayers. His funeral was today. I feel so empty, guilty, and sad for his death. I wish I could have done more, been more understanding and empathetic with his pain. I feel like he did this to show me, prove to me how much he hurt. I know in my brain I didn't cause it, but I feel like I triggered it with an argument we had. It was so awful. It has been a week today that the unimaginable happened. I am still in shock and disbelief. All I want to do is hold him and tell him that I forgive him and ask him to forgive me.
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