Did they warn you?

[Family Court Strategies: When Your Partner Has BPD OR NPD Traits.]

Yes, there were several times while raging he said that he guarantees that he is going to be gone. Of course then later he would always say he never means anything when he is upset and actually means the opposite. Yes I should have listened.

[Iwalk-Heruns]

Yes, there were several times while raging he said that he guarantees that he is going to be gone. Of course then later he would always say he never means anything when he is upset and actually means the opposite. Yes I should have listened.

[Iamdizzy]

I also like to say, I once told her during the honeymoon phase... .you're beautiful I'm a lucky guy to have you in my bed. She goes are you sure? I am too much to handle. I need someone that wll be there for me no matter what. You would think perhaps a shoulder to cry on, or a person for some emotional and or financial support but no, my god , NO. No matter what meant through hell and back. Literally HELL and BACK. I didn't realize that at the time.

[Pearl55]

Yes, there were several times while raging he said that he guarantees that he is going to be gone. Of course then later he would always say he never means anything when he is upset and actually means the opposite. Yes I should have listened.

That's a difference between disordered and non disordered people; when we get angry, normally we don't mean it but when they get angry, they tell the TRUTH. I believe one of the most annoying problems for non borderlines that stuck them for long is we think that they think the same way we do but they are short tempered.