For those of us a little further out... . I read this today and it seemed to make perfect sense:
YOU CANT START THE NEXT CHAPTER OF YOUR LIFE... . IF YOU KEEP RE-READING THE LAST ONE
Agreed. But it's important to ensure that we learned what we needed in the last chapter. We can't really learn multiplication until we understand addition.
We can't learn love, until we understand the crap behind why we accepted and reaccepted and reaccepted... . being with a pwBPD.