Hi again Dontknow88,
That your ex seems to be trying is a good thing, yet when it comes to the safety of your child I would say that probably a bit more is needed then just trying. Do you believe your ex has any true understanding of his issues? Do you feel like he genuinely acknowledges his issues and is committed to getting help to get better?
Take care
He knows he has issues after the storm if that makes sense. He reacts and sometime later you will realize what he has done. He knows the diagnosis of his issues and has told me that he is OK with being messed up for the rest of his life and because he has a child he will do the minimum to get better and not the maximum because "there is no hope" Thank you so much for agreeing with me he tries but it's not enough it's not enough for me to trust him with our son completely alone even when he's trying and things seem good he will break out into tears and storm out. If I son cries he hands them straight to me and hides in my bathroom and cry. I can't have my son growing up seeing the instability. I feel horrible but that something for my son to learn off it's not a positive thing