I will not go back unless she comes to me

[sladezy]

Hey,

So there has been a development today. She contacted wanting to know what I was doing over the Easter long weekend because she wasn't working. I mentioned a few things and she said she wanted to join because she doesn't get to take the kids to fun things through the week. I'm weary she never suggested anything about seeing or spending time with me, only with the kids. I let her know she was welcome to join us any time she wanted n haven't heard anything since. (which I'm ago with)  this conversation steamed from me sending a couple of photos from the weekend with the kids on a jumping castle.

I see what you're saying about the 60 second date but not sure I understand what kinds of things to say or do when our discussions usually a debriefing about the kids,I feel like personal questions regarding herself won't be as welcome in discussions but I guess I will find out this weekend.

The soiled clothes were left in the bag at the daycare then passed from her to me where I found them n cleaned them. I was only making her awear to check in there incase there's others in future. Still not a great topic to talk about.

I'm not struggling with any specific tasks with the kids just the shear volume of work and attention required to keep them happy while still trying to service my own needs between work n them.if anything I think I'm losing time.

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Sladezy:
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