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Relationship status: married
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« on: April 25, 2013, 06:43:47 PM »

I  am  done.  my BPDh  has  no  respect  for  me.  we  have  two  young  children  and  he  has  been  suspended  from  work  since  March  for  failing a  drug  test.  he  is a  doctor  and I  am a  teacher.  it's  difficult  for  me  to  plan  finances  without  knowing  child  support. I  also  think  he  will  have  to  leave  the  state  to  get a  job  so I  feel  the  kids  and I  should  be  able  to  stay  in  the  house.  he  will  fight  me  on  it.  Should I  just  find a  rental I  can  afford  on  my  own,  wait  to  see  where  he  gets a  job  or ?  I  have  no hope  nor  desire  for  reconciliation  but I  have  so  many  doubts.
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« Reply #1 on: April 25, 2013, 11:03:06 PM »

Lizzard I am sorry to hear this - its best to breathe and plan this thoroughly.

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« Reply #2 on: April 26, 2013, 01:56:20 PM »

Sorry to hear it.  I'm leaving my husband but I keep having doubts. 

You shouldn't have to leave the house.  In fact, that may look bad during a divorce. 

You might think about talking to a lawyer.  Many of them offer free consultations.  Try the internet and talk to a few. 

Good luck!
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