Ex girlfriend

[Family Court Strategies: When Your Partner Has BPD OR NPD Traits.]

SLIMMILLER WAS DEAD ON... . print that out and put it on your fridge... . I think I will... .

[Spartan999]

SLIMMILLER WAS DEAD ON... . print that out and put it on your fridge... . I think I will... .

[Eric1]

I'm going NC again. Its screwing me up, bigtime. All im doing now is checking my phone to see if she's messaged me & like you said, she doesn't care.

She got her problems off her chest with me because she knows i listen, then she can carry on. I expect i'll get another call in a few weeks when she has another problem, but hopefully i'll be out the woods a bit and strong enough not to awnser.

[me757]

Expect the calls to increase with NC and that will be the hardest part. But just remember how you feel right now when thinking of engaging again. It will get better with NC.

[Perfidy]

Ok... I'm sure I got this part right. They LIE to us. When she sends sad songs to you and says she don't want to hurt you... . What she REALLY means is that she WANTS to hurt you. From my own experience I believe this. Every time she says she don't want to hurt me I am emotionally destroyed. I am adhering to a policy of no contact. Burning the bridge. Scorched earth. For me. Not her.