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I just realized my dBPD friend, uBPD ex and uBPD father was all the youngest child of four with a big gap to the oldest sibling. Actually all of them had three older brothers.
Also, I was the oldest child of two. I have a younger sister. Though, I mostly grew up alone.
What about you and your pwBPD?
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i am the eldest of 3 brothers, she is 4th of 5 siblings. She and her younger sis i think both has BPD. Only her elder siblings seems healthy. Her eldest sis was 10 years aprt from her and i am 11 years older than her.
Thats what i used to think too. She seems to be a spoil brat at home, overpampered
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I have dated three BPD crazies. They were all the youngest child. I am the eldest of three.
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I'm the youngest. I have one older brother. My ex is also the youngest. Has 2 other brothers, who are like 15/20 years older weirdly enough. I guess she was a mistake
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In my case, nada. I'm the middle child. My ex BPDbf is the 2nd to youngest (younger sister) and has 7 sibs, 8 of them in total! The youngest sister is a mess just like him. Drug use, depression and anorexia.
The 6 older sibs are 2 older brothers and 4 older sisters. Only his 2 older brothers and 2 older sisters seem to be semi normal, stable and healthy. He doesn't seem to interact with his sibs very much. Just the older sister he lives with in his childhood home.
He also visits one sister with a nice house on the ocean in the summer and Christmas. It's a free place to stay, unlimited alcohol and food, at least from what he told me. Two of his sisters live in that same ocean town. He invited me to stay at the one sisters with a nice house on the ocean several holiday weekends. But, he always made up a story or excuse at the last minute and I never got to accompany him, nor meet her.
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I'm the youngest of 4 and my uBPDexh is the oldest of 3.
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She was 4th of 4 girls, 2nd oldest sister has NPD
Her parents marriage ___ the bed when she was around 6, divorced when she was around 8.
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We were both the youngest of 6. My oldest sister and likely father are BPD too. Perhaps this is why I didn't realize it was BPD until after she left me. Hmmmmm
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