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Before you can make things better, you have to stop making them worse... Have you considered that being critical, judgmental, or invalidating toward the other parent, no matter what she or he just did will only make matters worse? Someone has to be do something. This means finding the motivation to stop making things worse, learning how to interrupt your own negative responses, body language, facial expressions, voice tone, and learning how to inhibit your urges to do things that you later realize are contributing to the tensions.
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Author Topic: “I demand unconditional love and complete freedom. That is why I am terrible.”  (Read 666 times)
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« on: December 06, 2014, 09:49:18 AM »

I think this quote sums it up their fear of intimacy/abandonment 
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« Reply #1 on: December 06, 2014, 10:33:34 AM »

Bahahahaha it certainly sums up my ex. Mr 'cake and eat it to man'.  He also wanted me to instinctively know what he needed/wanted by reading his mind (he literally said that). He also wanted me to be ready at the drop of a hat to do what ever he wanted and to have money to do it wether i was working or in school or what ever. He himself however wanted complete freedom as you said to do whatever he wanted without me when ever he wanted. It is such a weird and truly sad disorder.
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« Reply #2 on: December 06, 2014, 11:35:06 AM »

I think this quote sums it up their fear of intimacy/abandonment  

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“I demand unconditional love and complete freedom. That is why I am terrible.”

It telegraphs the lack of boundaries and respect of others boundaries. The person is saying I want to be enabled.
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« Reply #3 on: December 06, 2014, 01:13:15 PM »

Yeah its pretty descriptive.

I want everything my way at all times and you need to be perfect or I'll find someone else.
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