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“I demand unconditional love and complete freedom. That is why I am terrible.”
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I think this quote sums it up their fear of intimacy/abandonment
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Re: “I demand unconditional love and complete freedom. That is why I am terrible.”
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Bahahahaha it certainly sums up my ex. Mr 'cake and eat it to man'. He also wanted me to instinctively know what he needed/wanted by reading his mind (he literally said that). He also wanted me to be ready at the drop of a hat to do what ever he wanted and to have money to do it wether i was working or in school or what ever. He himself however wanted complete freedom as you said to do whatever he wanted without me when ever he wanted. It is such a weird and truly sad disorder.
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Re: “I demand unconditional love and complete freedom. That is why I am terrible.”
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I think this quote sums it up their fear of intimacy/abandonment
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“I demand unconditional love and complete freedom. That is why I am terrible.”
It telegraphs the lack of boundaries and respect of others boundaries. The person is saying I want to be enabled.
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Yeah its pretty descriptive.
I want everything my way at all times and you need to be perfect or I'll find someone else.
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