Her stuff is still here

[How to communicate after a contentious divorce...]

The one thing that hurts the most is her anger and hate towards me.I did not do anything to warrant so much hate.

She is relentless and will even make stuff up to hurt me...

I hear ya man! For over 2 years, we never argued... .we never disagreed... .it was like a dream... .then one day, she up and leaves and her anger is entirely misplaced! I went WAY above and beyond the call of duty to help and support her and her son. I did things at great sacrifice and didn't care as this is what those do in a successful relationship. This was returned with an out of the blue discard and associated anger? What the heck? It would have been easier to take if there was constant acrimony instead of silence and bliss... .at least I would have seen it coming and been mentally/emotionally prepared.

Stay strong Mike.

Same woman here and her daughter and the puppie.Discarded like I never exsisted with a lot of misplaced ANGER towards me and vengeance.

I went above and beyond the call of duty to love,care and support all of them.I get it.

[NYMike]

The one thing that hurts the most is her anger and hate towards me.I did not do anything to warrant so much hate.

She is relentless and will even make stuff up to hurt me...

I hear ya man! For over 2 years, we never argued... .we never disagreed... .it was like a dream... .then one day, she up and leaves and her anger is entirely misplaced! I went WAY above and beyond the call of duty to help and support her and her son. I did things at great sacrifice and didn't care as this is what those do in a successful relationship. This was returned with an out of the blue discard and associated anger? What the heck? It would have been easier to take if there was constant acrimony instead of silence and bliss... .at least I would have seen it coming and been mentally/emotionally prepared.

Stay strong Mike.

Same woman here and her daughter and the puppie.Discarded like I never exsisted with a lot of misplaced ANGER towards me and vengeance.

I went above and beyond the call of duty to love,care and support all of them.I get it.

[Mr Hollande]

The one thing that hurts the most is her anger and hate towards me.I did not do anything to warrant so much hate.

She is relentless and will even make stuff up to hurt me...

To me that means you still matter to her. It's not a matter for celebration as that could spell danger though. You're ahead of the game by being out and maintaining NC. That's just my opinion so I'm ready to stand corrected.

[JRT]

MR... .how does that figure... .we still matter so they are angry... .they left without saying a word... .they have not contacted us in months... .We still matter to them?

I want you to know that I am not challenging you I just want to understand more... .

[Mutt]

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