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« on: December 21, 2014, 03:05:18 AM »

Little humor break here. What was your BPD's favorite saying? Mine had:

"Perfection is the name of my game"  (even though I am overweight and at times lack basic personal hygiene)

"You yelled at me. I'm calling 911"

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« Reply #1 on: December 21, 2014, 03:21:18 AM »

"I never talk about people behind their backs"

Probably the most absurd statement I've ever heard
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« Reply #2 on: December 21, 2014, 03:44:34 AM »

Mines was:

"You must be shapeless, formless, like water. When you pour water in a cup, it becomes the cup. When you pour water in a bottle, it becomes the bottle. When you pour water in a teapot, it becomes the teapot. Water can drip and it can crash. Become like water my friend."

Bruce Lee

Turns out: I was the cup, the OW was the bottle, his ex wife the teapot, and god knows how many other personalities he mirrored! He mastered being water pretty well!
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« Reply #3 on: December 21, 2014, 03:50:01 AM »

Mines favourite saying was " I know im hard work"

Talk about an understatement!
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« Reply #4 on: December 21, 2014, 05:16:04 AM »

"It's not that I think I'm better than anyone else and hate people. It's just that most of them lack common sense and I don't."

"Stupid people are at the low end of the food chain."

To me all of the time: "You are being so impertinent!" I always felt like she was treating me like she was my mother and I her spoiled brat and had to be punished and corrected. What the heck.
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« Reply #5 on: December 21, 2014, 06:59:53 AM »

Her favorite saying was.


''I don't do people that way''

''I don't role that way''

''That's not what I am all about''


I hope I never hear anyone say these statements again for the rest of my life.
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« Reply #6 on: December 21, 2014, 07:11:02 AM »

Mine loved to say over and over "your gonna miss me when I'm gone" . Well I've got news for her.
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« Reply #7 on: December 21, 2014, 07:14:28 AM »

"I think I'm a 'catch' "

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« Reply #8 on: December 21, 2014, 07:16:36 AM »

"What do you want me to say?/What do you want to hear from me?/What are you expecting me to do?" when being in an argument with her or right after some ___ty behaviour from her.
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« Reply #9 on: December 21, 2014, 07:19:16 AM »

I never lie .

I am Face value.

I was born with empathy and will die with it .




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« Reply #10 on: December 22, 2014, 02:54:04 AM »

"I can't do anything right"
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« Reply #11 on: December 22, 2014, 03:03:13 AM »

'I'm only human - we all make mistakes' - hmm being screamed at in a restaurant is hardly a mistake... .

'I would never do that' - in response to me asking who dropped her home one night, insinuating she was playing up. She was.
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« Reply #12 on: December 22, 2014, 03:06:02 AM »

She did not say it often but this one was memorable even to my kids.

"You just married me because you wanted a trophy wife."
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« Reply #13 on: December 22, 2014, 09:53:48 AM »

 "  I will never call you again i am Done" only to call back 15 more times.
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« Reply #14 on: December 22, 2014, 09:59:00 AM »

I am abandoning you because I LOVE YOU...

I am doing this because I LOVE YOU

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
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« Reply #15 on: December 22, 2014, 10:00:30 AM »

Our first face to face date, which lasted over three hours, she mentioned several things which stood out afterward:

I hate being lied to

[perfectly OK for her to lie, she was a master at it, devoid of emotion]

I am not a cheater

[she claimed she only went for another guy while she was still living with her then exbf after their relationship was over.  Fast forward about two months, at her first instance of spending horizontal time with the other guy while she wanted to be with me.  she admitted having an affair with her other bf's co-worker years ago]

Men are so f***ing sensitive

[closing complaint after having to deal with fallout she created by stringing guys along]

It takes two to tango

[her statement of alleviation to all personal responsibility]

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« Reply #16 on: December 22, 2014, 11:26:46 AM »

Definitely need humor Doing the right thing (click to insert in post)

Mine would say:

"I so real and honest I don't any know how to tell a lie."

"Even a half truth is considered a lie."

"Who are you as a person?"

"Who/what/when/where/why?" Lol... that was his daily controlling questions.

His infamous words to me. "You are a liar, don't trust you and never will." ... okay really I was accused of lying everyday.



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« Reply #17 on: December 22, 2014, 11:30:54 AM »

"I think I'm a 'catch' "

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Ha! Mine would say that. Followed with i m a lovable person. Every woman falls in love with me.
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« Reply #18 on: December 22, 2014, 11:42:05 AM »

I remember her 2 favourite sayings were... .

"It's coming from a place of love"  (It wasn't... .it was coming from a place of  wanting revenge upon mankind for her cousin raping her) 

"my mother will pay" 

... . 

Either way, she hadn't grown up, was in her 30's and was exceptionally lazy and unreliable.  I began making excuses for her excuses in the end... .  urgh, yuck, she was truly horrid and a mess... .and her mother was worse.
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« Reply #19 on: December 22, 2014, 11:57:36 AM »

I'm a good Christian woman!

Lie to me once and it's over.

Omitting is lying.

I am not a cheater.

I only cheated that time because I was being abused.

Talking to other women is cheating.

( but her going out with male friends is not )

I hate people.

Men are all dogs.

I'm a great catch

Nobody will ever love you like I do.

Your a habitual liar.

Your not a good Christian.

You live for satan.

If you really loved me you would-  ______

If you don't want me There are hundreds that do.

Men want to F__k me.

He is just a coworker.

I'm not attracted to him.

Hundreds of guys would like to be in your shoes.

A real man would------

That's what a real man would do in a relationship.

When you're dating men Buy you things--



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« Reply #20 on: December 22, 2014, 02:19:16 PM »

"Never stever!"

"I never said that!"

"I am the demon in your life."

"So you think i'm a worthless weightie?" (Something he called himself, while tipping the scales at near 300 and devouring a 2nd carton of ice cream).

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« Reply #21 on: December 22, 2014, 02:41:30 PM »

Love me.

Be nice to me.

Be sweet to me.

Don't leave me.

I'm needy.

We are never on the same page about [fill in the blank].

I'm so glad we are the same [in regards to blank].

I'm not in love with you anymore.

If you love me more you would [fill in the blank].

You always belittle my feelings.  You don't take my feelings seriously.

I'm a genuine person, I don't do things if I don't want to.

ugh.  There are more.

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« Reply #22 on: December 22, 2014, 02:51:08 PM »

Swear to God on your kids lives God strike Them dead you... .

Say The whole thing!

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« Reply #23 on: December 22, 2014, 02:57:11 PM »

"So you're the only one that sees beauty in this beast?"

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« Reply #24 on: December 22, 2014, 03:08:03 PM »

"My exes all called me Jekyll and Hyde."   

"I have a shelf life, I'm just no good after the honeymoon period."   

"I hate liars." 

"I hate men who abuse women. They're just cowards." 

"I'm pretty basic and easy to understand." 

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« Reply #25 on: December 22, 2014, 03:15:05 PM »

"You can trust me"

"I am not needy!"

Her reason to not seek mental health care:

"But it's temporary"

When I came home wearing a new scarf.

(suspiciously) ":)id someone give you that?"

When I brought home a valentine gift for her.

(suspiciously) ":)id someone give you that?"

Why are you looking over there?  

Why did you move your arm?  

Why did you move your hand?  

Why did you say that last week?  

Who did you talk to today?

Did you call them or did they call you?

Who did you call first?  

Who did you text?  
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« Reply #26 on: December 22, 2014, 03:56:21 PM »

Another one came to mind.

"I'm crass!"

"I say what's on my mind"

"I do what I want when I want to. No one can tell me what to do."

Boy was he right. If I told him one this he did the opposite. Like a rebellious child.
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« Reply #27 on: December 22, 2014, 04:00:00 PM »

"My exes all called me Jekyll and Hyde."   

"I have a shelf life, I'm just no good after the honeymoon period."   

Yes, truly a red flag. I know you will run next time someone tells you that.  Laugh out loud (click to insert in post)
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« Reply #28 on: December 22, 2014, 04:26:18 PM »

Here are some old standards:

- I'm just friends with her

- I would never do anything to hurt you

- I didn't say that

- You didn't say that

- You don't want to hear what I think

- I don't know why I did it

- I'll never do it again

And my all time favorite - You're Crazy!  hahaha yeah right its me 


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« Reply #29 on: December 22, 2014, 10:50:02 PM »

"I'm a mirror"

"You can't have it both ways"

"Nobody gets me"

"You don't know how to communicate"

"I know you didn't say anything, but I can read it on your face!"

"I'm the only one looking out for you."


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