I deactivate my account several months ago, because his fantasy girl liked posting on his page and I believe she did it deliberately to hurt me as she would tell him about places for them to go to together! So I decided to just get off Facebook and not give her the satisfaction.
Trust me, they do keep going back to your Facebook page if you are still there and haven't blocked them. Mine still facebook stalks his previous ex everyday and it's been 5 years since she walked out and went NC!
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WOW!
Yeah. My GF stalked her ex husband on Instagram and always b___ed about who he was with and where he was eating. Followed him on Facebook too. What an absolute idiot I was. I hardly said a word about it. Yet, at the final rage, she tells me that I'm not over my ex? Wow... .
I've seen this as a 'theme' as well: the BPD accusing the non of the problem that the BPD has. Just finished reading '... .eggshells' where the author notes this more than once. Along those lines, my cousin ran into her 18 year old son (what a piece of work he is!) who insisted to her (my own cousin) that I am 'psycho', It's ME that's psycho! Well, we all laughed about it and realized that what he said was just rolling downhill.
