Who would think about not flip flopping when communicating with BPD ex ?
I went with the flow , catered for her needs like for me to listen for once to her without pressuring her about a reconciliation .
I am on solid grounds ,I feel it with every once of my body , but as I said , it was her venting and shooting these ideas about the market or the trip , I didn't read anything in it and she's not at all disappointed with me it was a mutual agreement not to go to the market then she suggested to go see some old friends I didn't buy in it , I also might have miss expressed myself under this change in her situation ,and I motioned to her that it would be considered cheating neither of us do that kind of stuff .
The bottom line is am painted white as of now she is experiencing tough times with her living situation , I don't blame her and of course I am NOT going to pursue her because of her actual stressful situation like I did early in the break up this will push her away and I am not wanting to do so , maybe she is realizing what we had and never missed her meds while together ,she confessed that she had not been on the mood stabilizer since she left , she asked everyone around her to give her the money not even a family member to buy it , I will do when she gets her prescription filled this coming Tuesday and I will pay directly the pharmacy ...
I am not expecting anything , if she initiate contact I would answer if not I won't,
Rest assure that no pressure from me to reconcile or even address it with her , she left of her own unsure of her move , I expect her return on her own also if she likes ,if not am okay with it as I learned a lot in the last year and a half on this forum .
I am also very open to any suggestions from the board , every little thought helps !
